At some point in time, you will experience your first sexual encounter where everything feels different than what you used to feel. It is the time when you find your body quite strange and completely different. By the first sexual encounter, I meant the first time you masturbate or feel sexually attracted to someone. It can also be the time when you have a sexual intercourse with someone for the first time. This is the most special feeling you will ever get, especially when you are a teenager. Having your first sexual encounter reveals a lot of strange but incredible things about you and your body. You will have such an experience about your body and mind that you never had before. Hence, it is quite important that it must be perfect and on par with the expectations.
A lot of time, I come across with people, especially teenagers, who share how their first sexual encounter wasn’t as good as they expected it to be. Sometimes, people are so anticipated about having their first sexual encounter that they rush into it and then regret. Always remember, it is very important to have a proper knowledge of what you are going to experience. Since it is your first time, you must be aware of the things you may come across and must know how to deal with it.
Here are some tips to make your first sexual encounter as incredible as you want it to be.
Be Safe and Never Regret!
First and the foremost thing to keep in mind is to be safe while having your first sexual intercourse. This is a common mistake that a lot of people make due to the passion and emotional intimacy. Always remember, it is quite important to have your first sexual intercourse with proper protection. It is completely fine to indulge yourself in the sexual intimacy but along with it, you should be aware of the consequences of having an unprotected sex. Using condoms every time you’re having sex is the best way to make your first sexual encounter gratifying without having the risks of STDs and STIs. Besides, trust me, getting pregnant after having sex for the first time ever is the worst feeling a girl can have.
Don’t Keep Your Expectations Too High!
Well, it’s strange but we ourselves ruin our first sexual intercourse by keeping our expectations too high! When you know that you’re going to lose your virginity or going to explore your body for the first time, make sure you don’t fantasize about it too much. Thanks to the Cinema, we always fantasize our first sexual intercourse as we see in the movies. And, it kills us when nothing happens like that. Keep your fantasies alive during the sexual encounter, however, make sure you don’t compare it with real life. Another tip that I want to share with you is to never expect to have an amazing orgasm while having sex for the time ever. Expecting to have a miraculous orgasm will put pressure on you and make it difficult for you to give your best in bed. Sex is something you learn over a period of time, hence, it is better if you don’t keep your expectations too high. Also, make sure if your first sexual encounter goes wrong, it shouldn’t affect your desire to have sex again!
It is highly important for you to be comfortable around your partner. The best way to make everything perfect while having sex is to talk to your partner. Share your feelings with them and get to know how they’re feeling. Sometimes, having sex for the first time make you very uncomfortable and nervous that you want it to be stopped right away, even in the middle of the intercourse. If such a thing happens, make sure you tell this to your partner and stop the activity for a while until you feel relaxed and comfortable.
Hymen Breaking and Hurting!
Experiencing pain and having vaginal bleeding during the first sexual intercourse is quite common. This is because the hymen breaks during the foreplay or intercourse. You must know that hymen breaking and vaginal bleeding during the penetration is normal. A lot of girls even break their hymen during various activities cycling, dancing, and horseback riding etc. Hence, don’t panic when it happens until it’s really hurting and you can’t bear the pain. You may use a lubricant to make the penetration smooth.
Always keep in mind that your first sexual encounter is really special and you will be going to remember it throughout your life. Hence, it is quite important that you indulge yourself in any sexual activity when you’re so sure about it. Don’t get into the sexual encounter for the sake of anybody else but your desire!