The only thing which inhibits the young blood to enjoy the actual heights of those moments is ‘unwanted pregnancy’. Sex is a need, helps you bond well, trust your partner more, love them more and is pleasurable. But, sex as naturally is relaxing and calming can be storming and life-changing if things go out of place. A woman gets pregnant if the male sperms enter her body and fertilize her eggs. Many times, couples who don’t use protection think and plan that the guy would take the penis out as soon as the rush will build up and he would feel the urge to cum. As planned, a lot of couples even do that and this may reduce the chances of being pregnant but not completely.
To get pregnant, one doesn’t need loads of sperm but a single male egg can do the wonders and pregnancy can take place. If you really wish to enjoy sex and be tension free of unwanted pregnancy then do use contraceptives.
Doctors, celebrities, government and the nation has been shouting since ages to use protection when you indulge in sexual activities. But, people still avoid using condoms while having sex and it’s been observed that still, a certain percentage of men take it to their ego when asked to have sex with protection.
Is it possible to have sex and not get pregnant? Is it possible to get pregnant when he takes it out just at the right time? Can I have sex without contraception and still not get pregnant? Let’s try and find the answer to some of these and other such relation queries in this post further.
Have sex without contraception and not getting pregnant
Women are scared of getting pregnant and always so conscious about it when making out that they tend to not actually enjoy sex. Here are a few pointers to be taken note of, if you are willing to have sex but not pregnant.
Be on Birth Control
There are a lot of methods using which women can be on birth control such as pill, patch, ring, implant and IUD etc. Every woman and their monthly cycles are different but using these birth control techniques, the chances of getting pregnant reduce to almost 1%. However, the women should ensure they follow the instructions and guidelines strictly as aligned to the respective birth control method adopted.
Have Sex on Infertile Days
This demands serious efforts and a good amount of calculation. Women need to keep track of their fertile and infertile days and plan their sexual activities accordingly. This can be tedious and make having sex more like a planned and to do activity in those infertile days instead of a fun relaxing moment. But, to avoid pregnancy, one has to take up this pain. However the good news is, thanks to technology and smartphones, we have many apps that can help you keep a track of your monthly cycle and let you know easily when you are ready for the hanky-panky and when not.
The “Pull OUT” Method
This is a very commonly known and adopted method to avoid pregnancy. It is an old school method to avoid pregnancy without protection naturally. The “pull out” method basically means that the guy takes out his penis from the vagina right in the middle of action just when he feels the orgasm and need to cum. He pulls it out and ejaculates the sperms outside and not inside her body just at the right time. To be honest, this is a little risky technique compared to others. The problem with this method is that the precum or the fluids which are released before an actual ejaculation or when he released he is about to cum do contain active sperms which may enter her body and disturb the whole pull out planning. It does reduce the chances of being pregnant but requires mental activeness and sharpness.
Using a condom can help you not only have safe sex but a pleasurable one too. Couples using a fresh and perfect condom each time are likely to expect a sure shot result. The studies say that the chances of getting pregnant while having sex with condom are only about 10-12%. It must be ensured that the condom is worn properly and the penis is totally covered so that precum can also be avoided to enter into her body. It happens that during the act, the condom slips or gets broken but due to the ecstasy, a lot of many times couples don’t realize it. So, we will suggest the couples be a bit careful and also if possible use the pull out method or have a pill to be more safe and protected.
Also, female condoms are available in the market these days and those can be used too. The only thing to be kept in mind is either male or female, only one of them can be at a time.
Breastfeeding and Not Yet Got Periods
If you are breastfeeding your child and haven’t got your periods since you have given birth, such a time-period is also considered safe. The couples can enjoy sex for all the lost nights due to her being pregnant in this duration. Though using a condom or the pull-out method even at this time is advisable.
You Are on Periods
Well, some can enjoy having sex during this time and others may find it too dirty and unpleasant. For some, having sex during periods can be exciting and experimenting. To avoid pregnancy, you can have sex during the flow or just after it ends as the eggs responsible for fertilization are flushed away with the blood so the women are considered to be in a safe time to have those raunchy times.
If you have any queries about pregnancy or related issues, you can post a private or public question to us. In the meantime, you can read this article to know more about the pregnancy.