We have always heard about the elusive ‘G-spot’ that can do wonders in one’s sex life, right? Undoubtedly, every woman has a G-spot – well that’s good news – but not every man knows the art of arousing the wild beast in their partner with a single touch on their G Spot (no offence).
For those of you who aren’t aware of the mysterious G-spot and wondering how you can hit the bullseye next time when you make love, here I’m going to give you the magical tips to enhance your sex life literally by the tip of your finger!
What is the G-spot and where it is situated?
To put an end to your doubt, the G-spot is an erogenous area of the vagina that can lead to strong sexual arousal and powerful orgasms when stimulated. It is situated between the vaginal opening and the urethra that connects to the urinary meatus above the vagina. Well, you know it now!
G Spot is considered as the vital key to orgasm while having sexual intercourse. However, the degree of sensation varies from person to person according to where the G-spot in one’s body is positioned.
How do you know you’ve touched her G-spot?
While making love, the way you touch, kiss and please your partner matters a lot. Sometimes, a single touch can turn your partner completely off. Before getting wild, you must know how and where your partner likes to be touched.
When your partner feels a delicate change in the sensation, that’s the time when you have to maintain the moment without moving too fast or too slow. Your girl will get aroused if her Gspot is stimulated irrespective of the form of sex you’re having – oral or penetration.
How to enhance G-spot orgasms?
Even though it is just a spot to arouse your partner, it can give ultimate pleasure to her. As it is situated on the front wall of the vagina, start slowly by touching and kissing the area gently while you perform oral sex. The more gentle you are, the more pleasure she attains. Explore her with your tongue and lips delicately while holding her waist. Once she starts enjoying the pleasure, increase the pace and suck it hard. Trust me, she would love it more than anything.
Can clitoris be considered as the female G-spot?
The clitoris is another titillating part of the women body which has the capability to elevate the sexual experience to the next level. According to various studies, the clitoris has a major role in contributing to vaginal orgasm. A lot of women feel stimulated when the clitoris is being touched while performing cunnilingus – an oral sex act performed on the female genitalia.
What if your woman doesn’t feel a thing?
Even though every woman has a Gspot, it is difficult to locate it until and unless she feels much arousal. In fact, the G-spot in women may only be responsive at certain stages of their monthly cycle. So, you may try at a different time of her cycle to locate her G-spot.
What you must know here is girls often love it when you go deep down and love her. She may not ask you again but trust me, if she has enjoyed it once, undoubtedly, she’ll crave for it every time when you’re with her. On the contrary, some girls may feel it yucky and irritating when their partner perform oral sex. So, if this thought is overruling her mind, it is obvious that she isn’t enjoying it. Correspondingly, if you don’t like performing cunnilingus, don’t do it unwillingly as it may feel very mechanical and ruin everything for her.
However, in that case, you may try some sex positions that are better for G-Spot stimulation or stimulating the front wall of the vagina like women on top, doggy-style sex or any other rear entry position. Just so you know, the missionary position wouldn’t do wonders unless you tilt her pelvis upward using a pillow under her butt or putting her legs up on your shoulders. Or otherwise, you will always have your magic fingers to do the work for you. All you need to do is to rub her Gspot gently and massage the area around. If it doesn’t work, try different pressures and motions to explore it rather than giving up after a few attempts. Help each other identify the spot to have the best pleasurable experience.
PS: G-SPOT ISN’T A MYTH! So, Feel The Awesomeness Together!!